Wednesday, September 14, 2011

What is love?



The Word Love, relationship, letting go been on my mind today so I decided to blog about this... random I know, that's me.

Now the question is "what is love and what makes a relationship strong?"

I'm only going to speak on this topic from my perspective and I'm no expert and I'm not Dr. Phil.

I remind myself love is a verb not a noun.

There's a phrase that say "The brain does the thinking, but the heart knows more about love than the mind can ever comprehend"
I don't believe in chasing people…and on a serious note, not chasing for love...
In my opinion, keep your relationship OFF the Internet. I promise you, your relationship will last longer than the average relationships nowadays.

A friend of mine tweeted how long her relationship was based on the length of time they've spent together, but rather on the foundation they've built together.I guess numbers plays a bigger role... and if your trying to recover from a broken relationship don't rush into another one *side eye*...Unhealthy people make unhealthy choices!


On the other hand, the only relationship advice you should take from a single person is what NOT to do lol... continue reading, perhaps...

 Is your relationship having problems? Settle it with THAT person. Your "friends" can't help you. The person you're with, can.

Girls cheat if there’s something wrong with the relationship; guys cheat if there’s an opportunity...If someone doesn't appreciate and value you, then why are you even with them? Know your worth and what you deserve.
If you know someone is already taken, please, please, please respect their relationship There's plenty of fishes out in the sea. Don't be the reason...


and before judging anyone else's relationship, keep in mind that every lover has a different kind of love even if our girlfriends bashing away their lover's flaws and all and horrible traits...

My motto is: Everything happens for a reason and I'll take things as is without no closure. I don't need to have and hold the last words or hear any excuses or explanations of why the relationship didn't change/work...

How can we live love if some people don't choose to change... 
Life is TOO short to be looking back and trying to understand what went wrong... Somethings you have to LET IT GO! even when life give us difficult times and obstacles... it helped me to understand better than before, how infinitely rich and beautiful life is in every way not to take things for granted nor people and that so many things that one goes worrying about are of no importance whatsoever so I try to live life to the fullest... 

Wisdom is knowing when a relationship has run its course... letting go is a leap of Faith.

When love seems to fade at times, only a faith is all I need. A faith that believes everything will be fine in the end and as long we hold our composure from insanity, our insecurities, our doubts and negative surroundings and people. I always tell myself to walk by faith and not by sight and that sometimes, what we want isn’t always what we get, but in the end, what we get is so much better then what we wanted.
A loss is good for the soul. Sometimes its good for the bad. You can't win all time or have your ways, how will you learn and grow. I'm grateful for life's lessons and the courage to move forward, onward, upward.

An old saying that fighting for love is easy, but learning to surrender to a losing battle and leaving that's hard. 

Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending.

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